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Top Tips for Developing Excellent Interpersonal Skills


There are some people who are naturally great communicators, but even they have had lots of practice to get where they are today. For most of us, it is a skill that we need to learn and something that has to be developed over time and through experience. Many people struggle with interpersonal skills, especially if they are introverted or shy. But the good news is that these are things you can learn and practice in order to improve yourself. Here we look at some tips for developing excellent interpersonal skills in your life which will not only boost your confidence but also help you in the workplace and when communicating with others generally.

The first tip is to try to listen more and speak less.

Listening well is one of the most important skills you can develop as a human being. It's how we build relationships with others, gain new perspectives, and learn from each other. But in today's fast-paced world of nonstop information and social media, it can feel like there's never enough time to listen well—and that means people will often default to "hearing" instead of really hearing what someone has said or done.

Here are some tips for making sure you're listening effectively:

  • Take your time before responding. Give yourself a few moments after someone finishes talking before speaking up again; this will allow you time to collect your thoughts and formulate an appropriate response rather than interrupting them or coming up with an answer off the top of your head (which is usually not very thoughtful).

  • Try asking questions about what was just said instead of giving advice immediately; this helps keep people engaged in conversation rather than feeling dismissed or ignored because they said something wrong—which makes them less likely to share their thoughts later on! Also, think about how often YOU have been asked questions when talking with someone else...there might be something valuable there too!

Secondly, you need to start actively building your emotional intelligence

Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions, as well as the emotions of others. It's a crucial skill for building trust and respect with others, which in turn makes it easier for you to communicate more effectively with them. Emotional intelligence also helps you to resolve conflict in a positive way, rather than letting your feelings lead you into irrational behaviour.

To build up your emotional intelligence skills:

  • Read articles about emotional intelligence on websites like [link]. This will give you an understanding of what emotional intelligence is, why it's important, and how it can be developed through specific exercises and activities.

Thirdly, you need to start looking more closely at the way you behave

This is not just a matter of noticing how you dress or speak - although both are important. You also need to be aware of how you interact with others and what kind of impact this has on them. This could mean sitting up straight when talking to someone instead of slouching in your chair; smiling as often as possible; making eye contact; asking open questions; making small talk before getting down to business; etc. It's all about first impressions!

Given how much time we now spend on our smartphones and devices, it's important to ensure that you are using the right etiquette when communicating with others.

If you are going to be communicating with others in any capacity, it is vital that you use the right etiquette. You see, in this day and age, we spend so much time communicating electronically that our interpersonal skills can sometimes get a little rusty. We want to ensure that your communication is clear, concise and effective when working with others.

The following tips will help you develop excellent interpersonal skills:

  • Be polite. Asking someone how they are doing before asking them for something can be a good habit to develop (and it doesn't hurt anyone). Being polite will help build rapport with people as well as make sure that everyone feels respected and valued at work or home, which will ultimately lead to better collaboration between all parties involved!

Next, it's vital to ensure that you are able to give and take feedback positively

Giving feedback is a skill in and of itself, but it can be difficult for some people to receive constructive criticism. In order to make sure that your interactions are positive and healthy, consider these tips:

  • Give productive praise when someone does something good. Praise is important because it makes people feel good about themselves and motivates them to continue working hard at whatever they're doing. This can help build trust between coworkers or team members if used correctly!

  • Be specific with the criticism you give others. If there's a problem with something someone has done or said, then let them know specifically what needs improvement so they know where their weaknesses lie so they can work on improving those weaknesses in future situations!

Finally, remember that being kind goes both ways: if someone gives honest feedback about something related directly back toward yourself/your actions then try not take offense; instead just thank them politely before continuing along with whatever else may need attention from either party involved (this includes both giving AND receiving).

It is also very important for you to develop ways of communicating online which are clear, concise and effective. Long, drawn out emails or texts don't work as well even if we are not communicating in person. And remember that not everyone is going to be as tech savvy as you, so keep things simple and easy to understand.

Use bullet points instead of paragraphs and shorter sentences rather than long ones. Make sure everything is easily digestible by using emoticons where appropriate (e.g., "Wink") and emojis where necessary (e.g., "Face with Tears of Joy"). You can also use gifs (GIF images), videos, images and memes (a picture with text over it). You can even ask your reader's opinion by creating a poll on social media sites such as Facebook or Twitter!

Whatever role you do in the future, being able to communicate effectively with others will definitely help you stand out from the crowd and be successful

Regardless of the role, you do in the future, being able to communicate effectively with others will definitely help you stand out from the crowd and be successful. This is a skill that can be used in all industries and businesses.

Interpersonal skills are useful to have regardless of age or profession. Most people need these skills in their careers at some point throughout their lives. People who have excellent interpersonal skills tend to enjoy more success than those who do not possess such abilities because they know how to interact well with others when necessary or appropriate.


Hopefully, this information has helped you to develop your interpersonal skills. Remember that they are not an exact science, and although there are a few things we've highlighted here which will help you to be more confident, there is no guarantee! You might want to use our checklist on the right as a reference point when you're communicating with others in your workplace or at home.

If someone says something mean or offensive then always ask yourself, "did they mean it?" before responding back with anger.

If anyone is rude or disrespectful, then don't get offended – just try talking through what happened calmly, so both parties understand each other better.

Remember that there's no such thing as "the perfect speech" – sometimes it is better not to say anything than say something inappropriate! Just make sure your body language reflects what you're trying to convey (eye contact, smiling etc).

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